"Everything seemed to be over between me and my husband, we were living apart for almost 3 months. The divorce papers were in place, it was only a matter of time before it was officially over.
But I didn’t want us to end like this, actually I didn’t want it to end at all, it was not my choice but his.
With your help Ken we started talking again, and after a few weeks we moved back together.
Divorce is now out of the question, we are planning our second honey moon instead.
Thanks for everything Ken."
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Tuesday, September 30, 2008
David DeAngelo's responces to his clients' success stories
David's Comments:
A girlfriend... good work. And you're RIGHT ON
about one thing. It does take a VERY specific
mindset when you're working to meet a woman in
a bar/club setting. Thanks for the email, I really
appreciate your success story!
****************
David's Comments:
When I'm in my 50s, I'm going to take out your email
and read it to myself ten times a day.
You are TRULY tha man... and thanks for the story!
...so if you're reading this right now, and you'd like
to start having success like THIS in Bars & Clubs,
then get off your ass, and get your hands on the
program already!
Get the best advice - just the same as these guy's have done -
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A girlfriend... good work. And you're RIGHT ON
about one thing. It does take a VERY specific
mindset when you're working to meet a woman in
a bar/club setting. Thanks for the email, I really
appreciate your success story!
****************
David's Comments:
When I'm in my 50s, I'm going to take out your email
and read it to myself ten times a day.
You are TRULY tha man... and thanks for the story!
...so if you're reading this right now, and you'd like
to start having success like THIS in Bars & Clubs,
then get off your ass, and get your hands on the
program already!
Get the best advice - just the same as these guy's have done -
Click here for great advice on Dating Women
Monday, September 29, 2008
Being TOO nice to Women - by David DeAngelo
David DeAngelo's Responces to : "Being TOO nice to Women"
It's interesting for me to read questions like these.
The FIRST thing that pops into my mind when I see a question like this one is:
“He doesn't get it.”
That's it.
He doesn't get it.
Now, I guess it's probably obvious that a guy who writes me “doesn't get” SOMETHING.
If he did, he wouldn't write in for help.
I know, I know. I'm a logical genius.
Shut up.
But stay with me here...
The three guys who wrote in above all have VERY different situations.
But I really believe that they all have the same basic PROBLEM.
They're running up against totally different challenges, but I believe that if they all understood a few keys about women and ATTRACTION, everything would change for EACH of them.
So let's talk about those key things.
Here are a few of my key ideas:
1) ATTRACTION Isn't A Choice.
2) Women don't feel ATTRACTION for “nice” guys who kiss up to them.
3) If you don't GET how ATTRACTION works, then it almost doesn't matter WHAT you do. Nothing will work.
4) If you DO get how ATTRACTION works, then you can do almost ANYTHING, and it will work for you.
Let's take 'em one at a time...
ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE
Women don't “choose” to feel ATTRACTION.
BANG! It just happens.
And let me ask you something.
Do you think that the mechanism that causes women to feel ATTRACTION... the one that has evolved over millions of years... before language, before MTV, before you learned how to kiss women's asses... is LOGICAL?
ere's a hint:
No.
The bottom line is that if you interact with a woman long enough that she forms an “impression” of you, and she doesn't “feel it” for you, then you're done.
It's over.
And no amount of chasing her around, buying her things, and being “nice” is going to do the trick.
It's NOT a CHOICE, man!
WOMEN DON'T FEEL ATTRACTION FOR “NICE” GUYS WHO KISS UP TO THEM
Remember the guy above who asked the question “How can you be too nice?”.
Answer:
You already know... DUH.
Now I'm going to ask YOU a question...
WHY are you BEING nice in the FIRST place?
Right, right.
It's because you WANT something.
“Oh, no”, you argue...
“It's because I'm a NICE GUY.”
Or maybe you think that you were born this way... to be “nice”.
Or maybe you've even convinced yourself that it's the “right” thing to do.
Well, it's really pretty funny that the answer is staring you right in the face.
You keep proving to yourself over and over and OVER again that NICE DOESN'T WORK.
By the way, I love it when guys write in to me and say “I don't want to use the things you teach because I don't like the idea of MANIPULATING women”.
Then I ask “Do you buy women dinner, or take them out?”.
Of course, the answer is always “Yes”.
I ask “Why?”.
But I already know the answer...
IT'S TO MANIPULATE WOMEN.
Yep. And then the same guy says “Yea, but THAT'S DIFFERENT”.
OK, before I get too far off track here, let's just summarize and say that it is EASY to be "“too nice”.
And it REALLY screws up your chances with women when you are.
Women are NEVER attracted to WUSSIES.
“Overly nice” equals “Wussy”.
Remember that.
IF YOU DON'T “GET” HOW ATTRACTION WORKS, THEN IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT YOU DO. NOTHING WILL WORK.
Think about the concept of ATTRACTION for a moment.
What is it?
Is it important?
Is it the same for men and women?
Do you KNOW how it works for women?
Have you ever taken the time to LEARN how it works for women?
Have you ever CARED how it works for women?
Are you guilty of spending more time thinking about what you're going to leave on your outgoing voicemail message than thinking about this topic?
Well, let's get something straight...
MOST men, and I'm talking about 95% of them, have NO IDEA how or why women feel that amazing emotion called ATTRACTION for some men.
And if they DO have an idea, it's usually DEAD WRONG.
All most guys know is that women don't feel ATTRACTION for THEM.
It's obvious that our three poster children above haven't a clue about how and why women feel ATTRACTION.
Read their emails again right now.
You'll get what I'm talking about.
Notice something about these emails.
Notice that they all seem to be focusing on what they're DOING, rather than what they KNOW.
“I'm in a rock band and I'm a bouncer at a hot club... but that doesn't work...”
“I sent her an email, but that didn't work...”
“I'm a nice guy, but that doesn't work...”
Can you see it?
THEY DON'T GET IT.
If they did, their emails would be totally different.
IF YOU DO GET HOW ATTRACTION WORKS THEN ALMOST ANYTHING WILL WORK...
Here's the interesting part of all of this.
If you will take the time to LEARN how and why women feel that interesting and magical emotional response called ATTRACTION for some rare men, and not for ALL THE OTHER men running around, then EVERYTHING changes.
Here are a few interesting points...
There are a few physical cues, or specific types of “body language” that instantly tell a woman whether or not you're a guy that is even worth a SECOND GLANCE...
If you don't know what these things are, and how to use them, then the game will be over before it has even started.
Scary.
Women test men CONSTANTLY.
And ATTRACTIVE women test men MUCH MORE INTENSELY than “regular” women.
If you don't know how to spot these tests (and most of them are very subtle), and then deal with them, you're going to lose your chance to create ATTRACTION before you even GET it.
Being “nice” isn't the way.
If you want to chase a woman around for six months, buy her tons of gifts, take her on a bunch of expensive dates, and HOPE for a chance to have her as your girlfriend, then keep doing what you've always done.
This is the PRIMARY way that men approach the topic of “women and dating”.
I'd say that, on average, if you're REALLY REALLY NICE, and you buy her lots of extra-nice stuff, and take a woman on at least 20 dates over a 3-month time period, that you'll have about a 10% chance of her “falling for you”.
That's just a guess.
But it's probably pretty accurate.
On the OTHER hand, if you want to be the kind of guy that has women FLIRTING with you within MINUTES of talking to them, then you're going to need to do something else ENTIRELY.
And if you want to be the kind of guy that actually has so many options, so many dates, and so many women interested in him that you just can't take all their calls, then you're going to need a COMPLETE OVERHALL in your thinking, behavior, and perspective.
Yes, it can be done, but “nice” isn't the way to do it.
Here's the irony:
Women DON'T WANT WUSSIES!
No no no!
Women are looking for MEN.
You know, a MAN?
I have a theory...
I think so many women are turning into lesbians because even WOMEN have more balls these days than most men.
You probably think I'm joking...
OK, so what should us guys do to:
1) Stop being “too nice”...
2) Learn how ATTRACTION works for women...
3) Meet and date more women successfully...
NOW THOSE are some GREAT questions!
Step 1 is to OPEN YOUR MIND to a new way of seeing things.
I watched guy who were REALLY successful with women for a LONG TIME... with my OWN TWO EYES... before I started to actually SEE what was going on.
And at first it just plain didn't make sense AT ALL.
But once I began to understand it, everything came together in a “blinding flash of the obvious”.
Next, you need to realize that “nice” and ATTRACTION are two different things.
And they're NOT related.
Finally, you need to GET AN EDUCATION about this topic.
It amazes me that a man will go to college, spend a hundred grand OR MORE, and feel satisfied walking out of that educational experience STILL not having learned how to be successful with women.
Amazing.
It amazes me EVEN MORE that guys don't make the decision to actually LEARN this stuff.
Blows my mind.
Now, I've spent OVER five years working on this particular topic.
It took me a good 2+ years just to BEGIN to get a handle on what was going on.
It took me another year or so, AFTER I started to understand, to actually get GOOD.
After all that, I spent quite a bit of time writing notes to myself, discussing the techniques that I've learned and created, and putting it all together.
What's the result?
Well, now I have several great programs that I've designed to help teach guys how to meet and date women successfully.
And my stuff doesn't just focus on “what” to do. It ALSO focuses on THE WHY, and the WHEN, and the HOW.
In my eBook, “Double Your Dating”, I spend several dozen pages on this topic of ATTRACTION... how it developed, how it works, and how to understand it.
I get TONS of email from guys who say “Wow, this really opened my eyes and gave me a totally new perspective... and THAT is the thing that has made the difference”.
Of course, I also teach DOZENS of amazing techniques for everything from approaching women to getting numbers to taking things to a “physical” level.
The eBook is a complete education. Check it out here:
• Free Dating Tips Newsletter And Download eBook •
When you follow that link, you'll also be able to sign up for my FREE Dating Tips Newsletter... which is packed with even more great secrets.
I recommend that you take advantage of these resources.
I've put a lot of time, effort, and energy into them, and this is the first time in HISTORY that something quite like this has been available.
It's interesting for me to read questions like these.
The FIRST thing that pops into my mind when I see a question like this one is:
“He doesn't get it.”
That's it.
He doesn't get it.
Now, I guess it's probably obvious that a guy who writes me “doesn't get” SOMETHING.
If he did, he wouldn't write in for help.
I know, I know. I'm a logical genius.
Shut up.
But stay with me here...
The three guys who wrote in above all have VERY different situations.
But I really believe that they all have the same basic PROBLEM.
They're running up against totally different challenges, but I believe that if they all understood a few keys about women and ATTRACTION, everything would change for EACH of them.
So let's talk about those key things.
Here are a few of my key ideas:
1) ATTRACTION Isn't A Choice.
2) Women don't feel ATTRACTION for “nice” guys who kiss up to them.
3) If you don't GET how ATTRACTION works, then it almost doesn't matter WHAT you do. Nothing will work.
4) If you DO get how ATTRACTION works, then you can do almost ANYTHING, and it will work for you.
Let's take 'em one at a time...
ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE
Women don't “choose” to feel ATTRACTION.
BANG! It just happens.
And let me ask you something.
Do you think that the mechanism that causes women to feel ATTRACTION... the one that has evolved over millions of years... before language, before MTV, before you learned how to kiss women's asses... is LOGICAL?
ere's a hint:
No.
The bottom line is that if you interact with a woman long enough that she forms an “impression” of you, and she doesn't “feel it” for you, then you're done.
It's over.
And no amount of chasing her around, buying her things, and being “nice” is going to do the trick.
It's NOT a CHOICE, man!
WOMEN DON'T FEEL ATTRACTION FOR “NICE” GUYS WHO KISS UP TO THEM
Remember the guy above who asked the question “How can you be too nice?”.
Answer:
You already know... DUH.
Now I'm going to ask YOU a question...
WHY are you BEING nice in the FIRST place?
Right, right.
It's because you WANT something.
“Oh, no”, you argue...
“It's because I'm a NICE GUY.”
Or maybe you think that you were born this way... to be “nice”.
Or maybe you've even convinced yourself that it's the “right” thing to do.
Well, it's really pretty funny that the answer is staring you right in the face.
You keep proving to yourself over and over and OVER again that NICE DOESN'T WORK.
By the way, I love it when guys write in to me and say “I don't want to use the things you teach because I don't like the idea of MANIPULATING women”.
Then I ask “Do you buy women dinner, or take them out?”.
Of course, the answer is always “Yes”.
I ask “Why?”.
But I already know the answer...
IT'S TO MANIPULATE WOMEN.
Yep. And then the same guy says “Yea, but THAT'S DIFFERENT”.
OK, before I get too far off track here, let's just summarize and say that it is EASY to be "“too nice”.
And it REALLY screws up your chances with women when you are.
Women are NEVER attracted to WUSSIES.
“Overly nice” equals “Wussy”.
Remember that.
IF YOU DON'T “GET” HOW ATTRACTION WORKS, THEN IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT YOU DO. NOTHING WILL WORK.
Think about the concept of ATTRACTION for a moment.
What is it?
Is it important?
Is it the same for men and women?
Do you KNOW how it works for women?
Have you ever taken the time to LEARN how it works for women?
Have you ever CARED how it works for women?
Are you guilty of spending more time thinking about what you're going to leave on your outgoing voicemail message than thinking about this topic?
Well, let's get something straight...
MOST men, and I'm talking about 95% of them, have NO IDEA how or why women feel that amazing emotion called ATTRACTION for some men.
And if they DO have an idea, it's usually DEAD WRONG.
All most guys know is that women don't feel ATTRACTION for THEM.
It's obvious that our three poster children above haven't a clue about how and why women feel ATTRACTION.
Read their emails again right now.
You'll get what I'm talking about.
Notice something about these emails.
Notice that they all seem to be focusing on what they're DOING, rather than what they KNOW.
“I'm in a rock band and I'm a bouncer at a hot club... but that doesn't work...”
“I sent her an email, but that didn't work...”
“I'm a nice guy, but that doesn't work...”
Can you see it?
THEY DON'T GET IT.
If they did, their emails would be totally different.
IF YOU DO GET HOW ATTRACTION WORKS THEN ALMOST ANYTHING WILL WORK...
Here's the interesting part of all of this.
If you will take the time to LEARN how and why women feel that interesting and magical emotional response called ATTRACTION for some rare men, and not for ALL THE OTHER men running around, then EVERYTHING changes.
Here are a few interesting points...
There are a few physical cues, or specific types of “body language” that instantly tell a woman whether or not you're a guy that is even worth a SECOND GLANCE...
If you don't know what these things are, and how to use them, then the game will be over before it has even started.
Scary.
Women test men CONSTANTLY.
And ATTRACTIVE women test men MUCH MORE INTENSELY than “regular” women.
If you don't know how to spot these tests (and most of them are very subtle), and then deal with them, you're going to lose your chance to create ATTRACTION before you even GET it.
Being “nice” isn't the way.
If you want to chase a woman around for six months, buy her tons of gifts, take her on a bunch of expensive dates, and HOPE for a chance to have her as your girlfriend, then keep doing what you've always done.
This is the PRIMARY way that men approach the topic of “women and dating”.
I'd say that, on average, if you're REALLY REALLY NICE, and you buy her lots of extra-nice stuff, and take a woman on at least 20 dates over a 3-month time period, that you'll have about a 10% chance of her “falling for you”.
That's just a guess.
But it's probably pretty accurate.
On the OTHER hand, if you want to be the kind of guy that has women FLIRTING with you within MINUTES of talking to them, then you're going to need to do something else ENTIRELY.
And if you want to be the kind of guy that actually has so many options, so many dates, and so many women interested in him that you just can't take all their calls, then you're going to need a COMPLETE OVERHALL in your thinking, behavior, and perspective.
Yes, it can be done, but “nice” isn't the way to do it.
Here's the irony:
Women DON'T WANT WUSSIES!
No no no!
Women are looking for MEN.
You know, a MAN?
I have a theory...
I think so many women are turning into lesbians because even WOMEN have more balls these days than most men.
You probably think I'm joking...
OK, so what should us guys do to:
1) Stop being “too nice”...
2) Learn how ATTRACTION works for women...
3) Meet and date more women successfully...
NOW THOSE are some GREAT questions!
Step 1 is to OPEN YOUR MIND to a new way of seeing things.
I watched guy who were REALLY successful with women for a LONG TIME... with my OWN TWO EYES... before I started to actually SEE what was going on.
And at first it just plain didn't make sense AT ALL.
But once I began to understand it, everything came together in a “blinding flash of the obvious”.
Next, you need to realize that “nice” and ATTRACTION are two different things.
And they're NOT related.
Finally, you need to GET AN EDUCATION about this topic.
It amazes me that a man will go to college, spend a hundred grand OR MORE, and feel satisfied walking out of that educational experience STILL not having learned how to be successful with women.
Amazing.
It amazes me EVEN MORE that guys don't make the decision to actually LEARN this stuff.
Blows my mind.
Now, I've spent OVER five years working on this particular topic.
It took me a good 2+ years just to BEGIN to get a handle on what was going on.
It took me another year or so, AFTER I started to understand, to actually get GOOD.
After all that, I spent quite a bit of time writing notes to myself, discussing the techniques that I've learned and created, and putting it all together.
What's the result?
Well, now I have several great programs that I've designed to help teach guys how to meet and date women successfully.
And my stuff doesn't just focus on “what” to do. It ALSO focuses on THE WHY, and the WHEN, and the HOW.
In my eBook, “Double Your Dating”, I spend several dozen pages on this topic of ATTRACTION... how it developed, how it works, and how to understand it.
I get TONS of email from guys who say “Wow, this really opened my eyes and gave me a totally new perspective... and THAT is the thing that has made the difference”.
Of course, I also teach DOZENS of amazing techniques for everything from approaching women to getting numbers to taking things to a “physical” level.
The eBook is a complete education. Check it out here:
• Free Dating Tips Newsletter And Download eBook •
When you follow that link, you'll also be able to sign up for my FREE Dating Tips Newsletter... which is packed with even more great secrets.
I recommend that you take advantage of these resources.
I've put a lot of time, effort, and energy into them, and this is the first time in HISTORY that something quite like this has been available.
Sunday, September 21, 2008
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I had so little self-esteem and practically no boundaries at all – the only behavior I knew was to try to control and manipulate everyone and everything in my life – in a very sweet and smiling way.
I attracted losers and men who didn’t want me, but I kept trying to make each of these awful relationships work. It almost seemed that the more difficult a man was, the less he really wanted me, the harder I tried to make him love me.
That is, until I met my husband.
He was different than anyone I had ever met. He saw me for who I really was and he wanted me. As crazy as it sounds now, at first, I didn’t want him. I didn’t recognize him for the diamond he was. I was looking for crumbs, and he was offering me the whole meal!
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Friday, September 19, 2008
Gemini In Love
Astrology And Love Advice for Women:
By Carol Allen
If you're at all familiar with astrology, then you've probably heard that anyone born under the sign of Gemini is supposed to be two-faced.
Or that they have a "split" personality - the implication also being that you just can't trust them.
Well, before I tell you if that's true or not, let's see what history has to say about this endlessly fascinating sign...
In Greek mythology the twins of Gemini were brothers who were the sons of Zeus and the mortal woman, Leda. Their sister was the famous Helen, whose beautiful face launched the Trojan War...
When the twins died, they were reunited by Zeus as stars in close proximity in the night sky...
Sailors consider the twins of Gemini to be the protector of ships, saying the famous oath, "By Jimini..."
Well, in ancient Vedic astrological lore, the story is quite different.
Those male twins of Gemini are actually a pair of lovers embracing.
(Caught your attention, didn't I?)
That's right - the man is holding a club, and the woman is holding a lute (a musical instrument similar to a guitar).In case you're wondering how any of this helps you if you are a Gemini, or if you love one, here's the thing...
Myths are full of truths.
Whether or not Gemini is two brothers (it's the sign of younger siblings, it so happens) or a man and a woman (it's the sign of versatility - a Gemini can have a strong, protective masculine side, being a masculine sign, and a creative, feminine side, being the natural sign of music, performing, and writing)...
One thing is certain and you've probably heard it before: Those born under the sign of Gemini love variety.
And freedom.
And change.
Which is why they often get a "bad rap" when it comes to relationships.
Which is too bad, because when they're good, there's nobody better.
It's one of the friendliest, most positive, most charming and interesting signs around.
In fact, take them to a party with 100 people, give them an hour, and they'll have met everyone and been able to connect with each person about something by the time that hour is up.
But here's the thing...
Being a "mutable" air sign ruled by the changeable Mercury, Gemini is considered one of the most difficult of all the signs of the zodiac to pin down (i.e., get to COMMIT) as their energy is considered more subtle and changeable than any other.
It's for this reason that they're known for prefering to bounce from thing to thing, and be lifelong dilletantes, gathering a little of this, and a smattering of that - staying "Jack of all trades, and master of nothing," for life.
The real problem is, they're just so darn good at EVERYTHING, that they don't want to limit themselves to just ONE thing.
You see, the mutable signs are the most adaptable and flexible - interested in everything (and sometimes EVERYONE) and multi-talented.
Hence, they've been known to change jobs, partners, and residences often.
(I know one Gemini couple that moved fifteen times in nineteen years, and maintains two homes in two states.)
(It's not as though they're flaky, just restless... I always tell my Gemini clients to have several hobbies and take lots of weekend day trips to "scratch that itch...)
When in Rome, a Gemini will seem Roman, when in France, he'll seem French, when in Texas, he'll seem like a Texan... (which is just scary - KIDDING - I'm married to a Texan...)
(I always think of the old Woody Allen movie, "Zelig" when I think of Gemini - the story of a man who, like a chamelion, constantly changed with the changing of his environment. If you haven't seen it, DO.)
The signs of the air element are the most intellectual and analytical, so if you're in love with a Gemini, you'd better let him do lots of talking.
(He may be a big gossip, too! And as I've said, talk to everyone, everywhere you go.)
If you're a Gemini, be sure to pick a man that WORSHIPS your mind...
It never shuts off, and it's exceptionally fast, so the real challenge will be finding a man who can keep up!
Those of this sign are natural researchers and life-long students.
If you're reading this now, it's because you want to learn all you can to understand everything under the sun.
And, besides, you'd read the phone book since you just LOVE to read, as Mercury, the planet "in charge" of Gemini rules literature, media of all kinds, communications, language and speech.
So NEVER tell a Gemini to shut up (on second thought, please don't tell anyone to shut up), or seem disinterested in what they say, what they write (they make excellent writers) or what excites them.
(Which, I'm warning you - will be LOTS of things...)
He'll love to talk so much, he'll even do so in an uncommon place for most men - between the sheets.
(Depending on the rest of his chart, he may not be as romantic or emotional as you'd like, as Mercury is the planet of friendship, not romance...)
Being "shooshed" by you would be an unbearable disappointment (especially during pillow talk), so remember - good communication should be like a good tennis game - he hits the ball, then you hit the ball.
He volleys, you volley.
He slams, you slam.
In other words, match him shot for shot or he may take his toys and go elsewhere.
To find a Gemini, hang out in bookstores, seminars, game stores (Mercury is the planet of skill and play), travel films (it's the natural sign of short trips), and newstands.
Anything having to do with books will always be full of these enthusiastic and inquisitive lovers of knowledge.
(My Gemini rising mother ran a book group for thirty years, and my Moon in Gemini sister worked in a bookstore before becoming a big- time author herself...)
If dating a Gemini, these are the kinds of places he'll love to go.
Since he's a sucker for communication and media, get ready to text and email your twin lover like crazy.
In fact, a great gift for him would be the latest cell phone with internet connection, games, the ability to play videos (of you!).
He'll love technial gizmos of all kinds - so have all the latest video game equipment, the most cutting-edge wide-screen, high-def, flat television you can afford (with Tivo and cable, of course), and a fabulous sound system.
Then have them all turned on at once.
I am not kidding! :)
Be sure to have an active social life, lots of adventures and new experiences, and numerous magazine subscriptions, or your Gemini man may start to feel out of sorts.
Exercise is a MUST, since this sign can be restless and often distracted.
If you're a Gemini gal, this will be one of the few things that can actually quiet your mind, and will help you to be more calm and peaceful.
And if you're involved with this whirling dirvish of a man, get him to exercise, otherwise his brain may ZING, ZIP, and ZOOM around so much that he can't sleep.
Whatever you do - don't mistake the shifting sands of his nature and interests to have anything to do with you.
It's just who he is.
If you pay attention to his mind, join him in his various hobbies, engage in lots of constant conversation, and never compete with his full social calendar, you may just find that those nasty rumors are all lies - he's easy to pin down after all!
Which is a great thing, because while life with your Gemini may be unpredictable, it will NEVER be dull...
Now, if you're with a man that has the Sun in the sign of Gemini (or are a woman so zodiacally blessed) and none of what I just wrote seems to be helpful to your relationship, that's because the sun is not the planet that matters in relationships.
To know how you and a man FEEL together, you have to look to your Moon signs, and not just the signs of you both - you have to study the smaller sub-signs that reveal your emotional compatibility.
To understand exactly how you and a man connect or don't connect, check out a detailed, incredibly accurate compatibility report called "The Right Man Report" that will do that for you.
It will tell you not just how you and a man (of any Sun sign) will FEEL together, but the very destiny of your relationship itself.
Find out if you have compatible temperaments, sensibilities, and emotional natures and if you can also feel safe with him, loved and secure - or if, no matter how hard you try, you'll always just feel exhausted and unloved.
You can read all about it and sign up for my free newsletters by going here:
And may God and his planets and stars shower you with love!
Carol Allen
By Carol Allen
If you're at all familiar with astrology, then you've probably heard that anyone born under the sign of Gemini is supposed to be two-faced.
Or that they have a "split" personality - the implication also being that you just can't trust them.
Well, before I tell you if that's true or not, let's see what history has to say about this endlessly fascinating sign...
In Greek mythology the twins of Gemini were brothers who were the sons of Zeus and the mortal woman, Leda. Their sister was the famous Helen, whose beautiful face launched the Trojan War...
When the twins died, they were reunited by Zeus as stars in close proximity in the night sky...
Sailors consider the twins of Gemini to be the protector of ships, saying the famous oath, "By Jimini..."
Well, in ancient Vedic astrological lore, the story is quite different.
Those male twins of Gemini are actually a pair of lovers embracing.
(Caught your attention, didn't I?)
That's right - the man is holding a club, and the woman is holding a lute (a musical instrument similar to a guitar).In case you're wondering how any of this helps you if you are a Gemini, or if you love one, here's the thing...
Myths are full of truths.
Whether or not Gemini is two brothers (it's the sign of younger siblings, it so happens) or a man and a woman (it's the sign of versatility - a Gemini can have a strong, protective masculine side, being a masculine sign, and a creative, feminine side, being the natural sign of music, performing, and writing)...
One thing is certain and you've probably heard it before: Those born under the sign of Gemini love variety.
And freedom.
And change.
Which is why they often get a "bad rap" when it comes to relationships.
Which is too bad, because when they're good, there's nobody better.
It's one of the friendliest, most positive, most charming and interesting signs around.
In fact, take them to a party with 100 people, give them an hour, and they'll have met everyone and been able to connect with each person about something by the time that hour is up.
But here's the thing...
Being a "mutable" air sign ruled by the changeable Mercury, Gemini is considered one of the most difficult of all the signs of the zodiac to pin down (i.e., get to COMMIT) as their energy is considered more subtle and changeable than any other.
It's for this reason that they're known for prefering to bounce from thing to thing, and be lifelong dilletantes, gathering a little of this, and a smattering of that - staying "Jack of all trades, and master of nothing," for life.
The real problem is, they're just so darn good at EVERYTHING, that they don't want to limit themselves to just ONE thing.
You see, the mutable signs are the most adaptable and flexible - interested in everything (and sometimes EVERYONE) and multi-talented.
Hence, they've been known to change jobs, partners, and residences often.
(I know one Gemini couple that moved fifteen times in nineteen years, and maintains two homes in two states.)
(It's not as though they're flaky, just restless... I always tell my Gemini clients to have several hobbies and take lots of weekend day trips to "scratch that itch...)
When in Rome, a Gemini will seem Roman, when in France, he'll seem French, when in Texas, he'll seem like a Texan... (which is just scary - KIDDING - I'm married to a Texan...)
(I always think of the old Woody Allen movie, "Zelig" when I think of Gemini - the story of a man who, like a chamelion, constantly changed with the changing of his environment. If you haven't seen it, DO.)
The signs of the air element are the most intellectual and analytical, so if you're in love with a Gemini, you'd better let him do lots of talking.
(He may be a big gossip, too! And as I've said, talk to everyone, everywhere you go.)
If you're a Gemini, be sure to pick a man that WORSHIPS your mind...
It never shuts off, and it's exceptionally fast, so the real challenge will be finding a man who can keep up!
Those of this sign are natural researchers and life-long students.
If you're reading this now, it's because you want to learn all you can to understand everything under the sun.
And, besides, you'd read the phone book since you just LOVE to read, as Mercury, the planet "in charge" of Gemini rules literature, media of all kinds, communications, language and speech.
So NEVER tell a Gemini to shut up (on second thought, please don't tell anyone to shut up), or seem disinterested in what they say, what they write (they make excellent writers) or what excites them.
(Which, I'm warning you - will be LOTS of things...)
He'll love to talk so much, he'll even do so in an uncommon place for most men - between the sheets.
(Depending on the rest of his chart, he may not be as romantic or emotional as you'd like, as Mercury is the planet of friendship, not romance...)
Being "shooshed" by you would be an unbearable disappointment (especially during pillow talk), so remember - good communication should be like a good tennis game - he hits the ball, then you hit the ball.
He volleys, you volley.
He slams, you slam.
In other words, match him shot for shot or he may take his toys and go elsewhere.
To find a Gemini, hang out in bookstores, seminars, game stores (Mercury is the planet of skill and play), travel films (it's the natural sign of short trips), and newstands.
Anything having to do with books will always be full of these enthusiastic and inquisitive lovers of knowledge.
(My Gemini rising mother ran a book group for thirty years, and my Moon in Gemini sister worked in a bookstore before becoming a big- time author herself...)
If dating a Gemini, these are the kinds of places he'll love to go.
Since he's a sucker for communication and media, get ready to text and email your twin lover like crazy.
In fact, a great gift for him would be the latest cell phone with internet connection, games, the ability to play videos (of you!).
He'll love technial gizmos of all kinds - so have all the latest video game equipment, the most cutting-edge wide-screen, high-def, flat television you can afford (with Tivo and cable, of course), and a fabulous sound system.
Then have them all turned on at once.
I am not kidding! :)
Be sure to have an active social life, lots of adventures and new experiences, and numerous magazine subscriptions, or your Gemini man may start to feel out of sorts.
Exercise is a MUST, since this sign can be restless and often distracted.
If you're a Gemini gal, this will be one of the few things that can actually quiet your mind, and will help you to be more calm and peaceful.
And if you're involved with this whirling dirvish of a man, get him to exercise, otherwise his brain may ZING, ZIP, and ZOOM around so much that he can't sleep.
Whatever you do - don't mistake the shifting sands of his nature and interests to have anything to do with you.
It's just who he is.
If you pay attention to his mind, join him in his various hobbies, engage in lots of constant conversation, and never compete with his full social calendar, you may just find that those nasty rumors are all lies - he's easy to pin down after all!
Which is a great thing, because while life with your Gemini may be unpredictable, it will NEVER be dull...
Now, if you're with a man that has the Sun in the sign of Gemini (or are a woman so zodiacally blessed) and none of what I just wrote seems to be helpful to your relationship, that's because the sun is not the planet that matters in relationships.
To know how you and a man FEEL together, you have to look to your Moon signs, and not just the signs of you both - you have to study the smaller sub-signs that reveal your emotional compatibility.
To understand exactly how you and a man connect or don't connect, check out a detailed, incredibly accurate compatibility report called "The Right Man Report" that will do that for you.
It will tell you not just how you and a man (of any Sun sign) will FEEL together, but the very destiny of your relationship itself.
Find out if you have compatible temperaments, sensibilities, and emotional natures and if you can also feel safe with him, loved and secure - or if, no matter how hard you try, you'll always just feel exhausted and unloved.
You can read all about it and sign up for my free newsletters by going here:
And may God and his planets and stars shower you with love!
Carol Allen
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